In our community, bullying is not just an isolated issue—it’s a systemic failure. My daughter, has endured relentless bullying, harassment, and even physical assault at school. Yet, despite clear evidence and repeated reports, the school has failed to take meaningful action. The student responsible has not even been suspended. Meanwhile, when my youngest child was involved in a couple of fights, the school mailed suspension notices and enforced weeks-long punishments.
The contrast in disciplinary actions raises serious concerns. Why is there a pattern of leniency when it comes to bullies, yet swift and severe punishment for others? The inconsistencies in how the school board applies its policies suggest a failure to uphold its own standards. I have compiled a large list of examples where bullying has gone unpunished in our community, each case a glaring indictment of a system that seems more interested in protecting aggressors than safeguarding victims.
This Incident Of Racism has revealed the school hasn’t even excuses but actions are rarely taken.
This Gyro Beach Attack got some movement but kids are still getting away with it. We recently had a girl being swarmed by a bunch of girls at a bus stop and she had to jump into a strangers car to get away from the attack.
Swarming, beating, even vomit. Just last year another girl was swarmed and attacked and even forcefully puked on by a group of girls just a few blocks from my home.
Let’s not forget about the murder of Reena Virk that happened right on the coast. These girls were my daughter’s age in 1997 when it happened. The accused criminal has just been arrested again a couple months ago because even after murdering someone they have her a second chance and she is breaching conditions.
Poor 12 year old Drayke Andrew Harman couldn’t handle the pain anymore and hung himself off his bunk bed. Tragedy, that could have been avoided. Izzy Tichenor was just 10 years old when she took her life as well. This school district has been investigated for their negligence in bullying situations and now it’s time for us to get some answers.
Now my own daughter has been stalked, harassed, and even had a knife pulled on her. I can’t be the only parent that gets emotional when this is happening.
This is how escalating violence ends, the parents of Ashley Hyatt will never be the same after the life of their daughter was taken in 2010. And now my daughter is being threatened by older boys, why is this allowed?
Social media needs to be monitored. In case you didn’t know these kids are still able to make “fight pages” on Instagram and other platforms. This is disgusting.
How many lives need to be destroyed before these kids are held accountable? A slap on the wrist and some minor charges are not the answer. These kids need to go to juvenile detention centres, or start being tried as adults.
According to the school board’s policies, bullying and harassment are supposed to result in disciplinary measures, including suspension and intervention. Yet, in Brooke’s case, these measures have been glaringly absent. The policies exist on paper but are not enforced in reality. Instead, my daughter and many other victims are left vulnerable, while the perpetrators continue their harmful behaviour without consequence.
Parents are repeatedly assured that schools take bullying seriously, but the reality paints a different picture. The stark difference in how my youngest child has been treated versus how my daughter’s bully has been handled exposes a disturbing double standard. Why does the system come down hard on some children while letting others escape accountability entirely?
This failure is not just about my family—it’s a community-wide issue. Schools have a responsibility to ensure a safe learning environment for all students. If policies are not being enforced, what purpose do they serve? How many more children must suffer before real action is taken?
It’s time for the school board to answer these questions and uphold the standards they claim to follow. Our children deserve better.
I have watched so many emotional movies about bullying and murder that it is a legitimate fear for my family, and now that I am living this nightmare with all the warning signs I need to stand up and protect them.